Saturday, July 13, 2013

Cuddlespankin's

We have a thing we do.... we kind of talked about it in the 'that time of the month post'.... We do dailies. Sometimes more than once. Oh stop! It's not that bad.! I don't get corrected much because we do. So it works for us. Some spankings have a reason - stress relief, discipline (I'm a little bit out on the range and Daddy has to pull me back in), erotic, the just because....



The ones I'm talking about are what we call cuddle-spanks. And they are spankings, don't get me wrong, my Daddy is not one to waste an opportunity to make a point! And he says a spanking is ALWAYS a spanking. Cuddle spankings can last an hour or two..... or more. He alternates, me across his lap, side by side with me - he with his arm around my waist and facing the opposite direction, or laying beside me, playing with my hair, stroking my back, AND spanking.

But we talk (when I can - sometimes it's too intense for speech.....Daddy doesn't give love pats), about anything..... what we did that day, dinner, the need for chocolate, the movie we saw, or want to see, a decadent dessert we want to make. Issues with the kids, or something cute they did.... you get the idea....anything and everything.



It, as I said, does get intense at times - every spanking is discipline, reinforces our places and the fact that I belong to him. But it is lovely, and nice, and bonding, and so very us. It brings us closer, and allows us to focus on each other. So much better than an evening in front of the tube ;)

HER GUARDIAN:

 It's more than something that we do, it really does bring us closer. The soft quiet hours of the evening long after the children have gone to bed, the dishes have been put away and we are at long last able to breathe and express our love to each other... Indeed it is a true pleasure to share such quality time with my little China Doll.. What could possibly bind us closer? This is truly intimacy unrivaled in one of it's most beautiful forms.

16 comments:

  1. Nice! We do a similar thing- cuddle up and spanked. Any position is a spanking position!

    While it does reinforce our roles it serves more as a reminder how much im loved n cherished rather than discipline.

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    1. Hi Fondles :) Yes! It absolutely does reinforce our roles. Even when it's a fun spanking there is a little element of discipline and obedience. And yes, makes me feel very loved and cherished! Glad I'm in good company :)

      <3
      cd

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  2. Lovely:-) spanking and cuddles a great combination.
    DF

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    1. MMMhmmm, DelFonte - even better than spankin's and chocolate :D

      <3
      cd

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  3. Cuddlespankins sound just lovely. It's great to just have that time to reconnect and just be.
    <3 Lily

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    1. Oh, definitely, Lily! The reconnect time is amazing! I'm glad we take time for it every day :)

      (((hugs)))

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  4. I think thats lovely, we dont do spankings as such but i do love it when my Master has be held in my arms and playful tortures my nipples/breasts as he cuddles me....and we talk about inane things lol

    x

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    1. Daddy does that sometimes, too, tori, well, of course he can do whatever he wants :) It is always worth it, I enjoy that feeling of him over, surrounding and protecting me, of being in the palm of his hand.

      <3

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  5. Cuddle Spankins sound amazing! No tv show could ever compare to the love and intimacy that is created in that time together.

    hugs
    p

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    1. You're not kidding! I race him up the steps, lol. I think I may be a spanko O_o

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  6. What a very lucky lucky girl you are. Weeklies are just not enough. Hubby is reading this one.

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    1. I count myself among the very luckiest. I waited my whole life long for someone who would love me at all, and I got someone who loves me above all.... not just lucky, Annie, truly blessed.

      <3
      cd

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  7. Cuddle-spanks, I love it! What a wonderful way to connect and focus on each other and spend quality time together. You have an amazing Daddy :)

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. It is very much so, Roz. And I do have such an amazing Daddy, sometimes he simply takes my breath away. I love the warmth of him stretched out beside me, and the feel of his hands on me, and talking and sometimes giggling. It's most amazing!

      <3

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  8. you're lucky ...

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    1. I know, I try hard to never forget. Thanks for reading :)

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