Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Stress Relief

His China Doll
I am prone to migraines. I had one for three days. Daddy was worried. He says I get too many, and I may need to see a doctor. I disputed this and he just smiled sagely.

We do dailies, but none of them had seemed to cut through the headache haze. At bedtime we were all cuddled up and chatting. After a good while, Daddy said, "Well, before we get too much sleepier, I think it's time for me to give my little girl a good spanking." Well, that made an involuntary scrunchy face appear because a 'good' spanking is a harder than usual spanking and sometimes they make me cry. Daddy smiled and asked what that was about. I shook my head and whispered no, and my pouty lip poked out. Daddy kissed my lip and swung up off the bed, approaching the closet and opening the toy chest and musing, "Let's see what I should spank you with..." I heard him rummaging around but my eyes were closed, partly because I was light sensitive, and partly because I was tired, and partly because I was afraid of what I'd see come out of the box.

Daddy came back and tossed the toys on the bed, and curled up next to me, kissing along my cheek and jaw, then whispered, "Roll onto your tummy, little one." I shook my head very small, and Daddy said again, firmer, "I said roll onto your tummy." I cracked my eyes and saw that he had his serious Daddy face on, so I rolled over with a soft little sigh, and rested my forehead on my folded arms. Daddy wrapped his arm over my back and placed his hand by my hip so I could grab it when I needed to.

He started spanking with his hand, over my panties, talking softly, telling me that I had been a bit 'crunchy' that day, he knows that it was probably because I didn't feel very well, but he was going to take care of that. His fingers hooked under the band of my panties and he slid them down, proclaimed me nice and rosy, rubbed a few minutes, asked if it felt nice and then began again with his hand, very firmly. I'm not allowed to clench or tense my bottom or legs during a spanking, but when it gets hard, I will tense my arms and torso, and reach back and sqeeze his hand while pressing it to my side. Last night his hand almost brought me there, I found myself fighting back the wiggles and the tensing.

Then he brought out the padauk spanking stick - ugh! That hurts! And there is some weird small comfort when only one cheek is impacted at a time, but the stick is long, about 2 feet, and it impacts both cheeks with precision. Daddy said later he knew I didn't enjoy it because I reacted right away to it. No kicking, no clenching, no wiggling, but boy I wanted to! It just went on and on with not many breaks. Daddy asked me a question, but I couldn't answer because I was crying. He said, "Oh, not much to say?" and resumed spanking even harder. Soon he saw that I was crying and crooned soothingly that he had me, it was okay, he kissed my hips and my back, paused to rub and then resumed, assuring me that I was his good girl and there was just a bit more to go.

Finally he stopped, and laid next to me. Holding me tight and kissing me, whispering in my ear for a long time, till I turned my face to his chest and stopped crying. He whispered, "Are you ready for your strapping?" and I nodded. He kissed me again, and laid his arm across my back, starting softly, eventually rising, the pain disappearing into that lovely haze, the strokes getting much harder, I knew because I could feel myself rocking on the bed. Then suddenly that lovely thump on my back, that soft sting and deep thud, then my bottom again, and down my thighs and calves softly, ending again on my bottom. I drifted along, sometimes feeling the rocking, sometimes hearing how loud the strap was and not caring in the least.

And then.....a blessed release, the tightness in my neck and back not only disappeared, but that lovely soft, tickly, relaxed feeling started seeping through my body from those points that had been the center of pain for three days. I was vaguely aware of Daddy putting the toys away, and then rubbing coconut oil into my bottom. Then he slid beside me, all strong and warm, and I slid against him, magnet to magnet, my ear against his heartbeat, and my fingers against his face. I kissed him and murmured, "Thank you, Daddy," and fell asleep in his arms.

This morning? Still headache free.


 



 Her Guardian:  

I worry sometimes, I guess that doesen't make me unique, but my CD often suffers from stress headaches and migranes. It happens at an often enough frequency that sometimes I think that maybe she ought to see a doctor.  Other times  I can see the signs. The way she moves, the way she responds. Sometimes nothing clears those headaches away but a good firm spanking (She will probably stick her tongue out at me.) Sometimes just cuddling, sometimes talking, sometimes concentrated pleasure...these are the keys to a good night's rest.  I love that peaceful space between waking and sleeping...That soft, sleepy place where love is abundant... that is one of our treasures.

16 comments:

  1. Yay for "good" spankins and strappedy's! I'm glad your headache is all gone now.

    You wouldn't stick out your tongue at your Daddy, would you? lol

    big big hugs
    bg

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    1. I do it aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllllllll the time, and often times he does it back! LOL. Yes, it was awesomely owwie, then just awesome. He takes good care of me.

      big big hugs back!
      cd

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  2. Glad your headache is gone and I think he knew exactly what was needed! :)
    I can't imagine not wiggling! It's very hard even with good spankings.

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    1. I'm not a wiggler at all, usually the only movement in my lower body is from the impact of the spanking. It's darn hard when it's intense, but that strap? it's like it takes all my bones, lol. I can have a moment of oww if it catches me in a tender spot, but it never really matters because I totally zone out...it's momentary, then kind of just floats away from me. It's amazing :)

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  3. Hi I've just found your blog and its great to be reading here. I suffer with migraines but not tried spanking for relief. However orgasms work well for me! its probably those lovely endorphins which come with a good hard spanking - might suggest it next time.

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    1. Hi DelFonte, we're glad you found us! This is the weirdest thing, sometimes I get headaches from orgasms, lol. It comes so hard and so fast, especially if I've been hanging on the edge, that when it hits, so does the headache :(

      I'd venture it's the endorphins, and the sensation is palpable, it starts as a tickle at the base of my skull, and spreads upward into my head and down my spine, and I can feel each muscle just release and I couldn't move if you paid me, and so very lovely after being in pain for a long time.

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  4. Hello you two,

    I just discovered your blog through Missy's - and though I am not in a D/s relationship, I loved reading about you guys and the obvious deep love you share. I smiled when I read that he fixed you & she completes you - that's really beautiful.

    Welcome to blogland!

    :) Cali

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    1. Thanks so much, Cali, and welcome :) He is everything I have ever prayed for and I am sometimes still so taken aback that he wants me with all my cracks and imperfections. I'm very lucky :)

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  5. Hi, I have read your earlier posts. Sorry it has taken me a while to manage to leave a comment.

    Welcome :) I love, love, love what I have read here! I'm so glad you started this blog. My HoH enjoys it too. In fact, I interrupted him reading one of your posts the other day. He was quite enjoying it and wasn't too amused with the interruption LoL.

    Oh cd, migraines are so awful, I get the 'sickie' type from time to time. Fortunately the headache itself isn't the nasty, extremely painful type, but I do get the vision and nausea etc.

    I'm so glad your Daddy took such great care of you and was able to vanquish the migraine. Goodness, you make the strapping sound more like a massage! LoL.

    I love the interaction between you two. So loving and just beautiful.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. That's okay, Roz, we understand how crazy life gets! Thanks so much, and we're glad you're enjoying it. lol on your HoH, btw, my Daddy gets annoyed sometimes, not that he says much, but his eyes take a little longer to come off the page, that's how you know you're reaching the end of his patience, lol.

      He DOES take care of me :D No one has ever understood me the way he does, sometimes I don't even understand myself as well as he does...that's a trick ;-p

      Thanks again & hugs,
      cd

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  6. Aren't migraines the worst? I'm so glad spankings just melt everything away for you. I'll have to give it a go the next time one hits me. I envy your minimal movement. I have no idea but for at least the first bit I always wiggle and say ow, like I don't know what's coming. Lol. Glad you're feeling better!
    <3 Lily

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    1. Migraines bit the big one, Lily :) I have gotten them for as long as I can remember, Daddy is better than any medicine for them, lol.

      I always got a little nervous, cause when Daddy and I first got together he said he does not tolerate resistance or interference, but he does not mind wiggling. But I don't wiggle...I was worried he would not be pleased. But he says he can tell in other ways that I am enjoying it, he says I make little noises, though I am not verbal either *shrugs* Either way, he says he has fun and I definitely do, and it all works for us :D

      <3 cd

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  7. Sometimes nothing short of a spanking will help my headaches. No idea why it works.

    It took me a few trips to find your blog on my phone. Thanks for the invite. :-)

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    1. Welcome Rose! I'm glad you found us and you are most welcome!

      It's amazing, melts away with none of the weariness or drowsiness or other unpleasant fallout effects a migraine usually has. I'm grateful he gives me that :)

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  8. Im blessed that i dont get migraines nor headaches very often. But wen it hurts it hurts!!

    I try not to clench, BIKSS doesnt like it either, n it doesnt feel so good for me anyway, but i AM very vocal. I think he just ignores the first few ows n ouches knowing im just getting used to a spanking.

    But wen he's into it, im usually quiter.

    Glad to hv found u!

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    1. LOL, I think by the time Daddy is into it, we're both way into it. I can tell when he is, usually followed by sucking in a breath or two until I fall into place with him, then it gets all lovely and floaty. He knows when it's getting intense when I start to hide my face, then he winds his fingers in my hair & draws my face around and tells me I don't have to hide from him, not even my tears. It's very sweet.

      <3
      cd

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